Good Read
November 2024

Hope for Cynics by Jamil Zaki

Suzanne Shanahan

Leo and Arlene Hawk Executive Director, Institute for Social Concerns

Stanford neuroscientist Jamil Zaki is a self-professed cynic. I liked him immediately. I felt we would have much in common. Though as director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab, Jaki knows what I do not. He has significant evidence that cynical people tend to have worse physical and mental health. They die younger. At a societal level “study after study finds that cynical beliefs eat away at relationships, communities, economies, and society itself.” Cynicism is associated with populism, conspiracy theories and polarization. Put differently, cynicism is bad for individuals and society alike.

I begin Zaki’s 2024 Hope for Cynics: The Surprising Science of Human Goodness determined to resist this evidence. But the more I read the less I resisted. Jaki’s core argument is that cynicism increases when there is a trust deficit. And as public trust has declined over the past several decades cynicism has flourished. His narrative offers a lovely balance between personal reflection centered on a dear friendship and significant data. In the introduction, Zaki makes clear that contrary to popular belief cynicism is not smart, safe or moral. Zaki implores us to look more closely at evidence as a means to push against cynicism. He contends, “Cynicism is a dirty pair of glasses more of us put on each year. I intend to help you take them off. You might be astonished by what you find.” The idea is tempting but I’m holding tightly to my cynicism.

In the best of ways, Hope for Cynics has the feel of your typical airport self-help book (complete with exercises to pivot my cynicism to hope). It is the kind of easy, breezy read you can digest fully on a plane ride and disembark feeling both a bit smarter and a bit better about the world. The key upgrade over your standard airport fare is the neuroscientific knowledge and data Zaki is able to muster. When chapter five kicks off with a Kurt Vonnegut quote: “We are what we pretend to be, so we should be careful about what we pretend to be.” It makes me wonder if perhaps my own cynicism is more of a pretense.

Indeed it is fairly early in the book that I realize that I’m not actually a cynic. I possess significant trust and hope. I just need good data to be convinced. In Zaki’s terms that makes me a hopeful skeptic. In many ways, I am perhaps already the person Jaki encourages us all to be. But I am also a person who believes hope ought to prompt action. And I would have loved to see more of the ways that hope is a verb and a powerful catalyst for change. I am perhaps a bit more like Rebecca Solnit whose quote opens the book:

“Hope is not a lottery ticket you can sit on the sofa and clutch, feeling lucky…It is an ax you break down doors with in an emergency.”

Hope for Cynics is a clever, fun read that prompts important self-reflection.  My most significant critique of the work is that I’m not sure a cynic would pick up a book called Hope for Cynics. Perhaps then the book is more for people like me who need the occasional reminder to live into our hopeful side.